Dan on handling the discovery that your boyfriend is a trans man, and avoiding awkwardness in a threesome with a couple.
by Dan Savage
Q My boyfriend of three months, "Marcus," told me last week that he is a trans man. He has performed oral sex on me and fingered me, but he never let me reciprocate and told me he didn't want to have penis-in-vagina sex yet because to him that was a large commitment. We go to college in a conservative part of the country, and almost no one here knows.…[ Read more ]